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Restaurant
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Is it bad to stand chopsticks in rice?
Avoid sticking chopsticks upright in your rice. When you pause, rest them on a chopstick rest or across the edge of a dish.
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Is it bad to pass food from chopsticks to chopsticks?
Avoid passing food directly from your chopsticks to someone else’s. Put it on a plate first and let them take it.
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Do you always have to say "itadakimasu"?
"Itadakimasu" before eating and "gochisosama" afterwards are widespread customs, not laws or rules. Saying them is a nice way to show appreciation.
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- Good to knowDo you tip in Japan?
- OKCan you eat sushi with your hands?
- OKIs it OK to slurp ramen?
- Better notCan you wear slippers on tatami?
- Better notCan you keep wearing the toilet slippers?
- It dependsWhat are the rules for smoking in town?
- Good to knowDo you take your shoes off in Japanese homes?
- Good to knowDo people bow in Japan?
- Good to knowHow do you share dishes served on a big plate?
- Good to knowHow do you cancel a restaurant reservation?
- Good to knowWhen is keigo (polite Japanese) used?
- Good to knowHow do people queue in Japan?
- Good to knowHow do you queue in shops?
- Good to knowDo you have to use the cash tray?
Train
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Can you make phone calls on trains?
Phone calls on trains and buses are generally avoided. Keep your phone on silent ("manner mode").
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Who can use priority seats?
Priority seats are for older people, people with disabilities, pregnant people, those with small children and others who need them. Give them up when someone needs one.
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Can you eat on trains in Japan?
Eating ekiben (station bento) is common on the Shinkansen and limited express trains. On commuter, local and subway trains, people generally avoid eating.
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- Good to knowDo passengers get off before others board?
- Good to knowWhere do you put large luggage on trains?
- Good to knowIs "sumimasen" only for apologising?
- Good to knowWhat do you do when there are few trash bins?
- Good to knowHow loudly can you talk on trains?
- Good to knowHow do people queue in Japan?
Onsen
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Can your towel go in the onsen water?
Keep your towel out of the bathwater. Rest it on your head or put it outside the bath.
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Can you take photos in changing rooms and baths?
No. Taking photos in changing rooms and bathing areas is strictly prohibited to protect other people’s privacy. Keep your phone in the locker.
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Can you enter an onsen with tattoos?
It depends on the facility. Some turn tattooed guests away and some welcome them, so check in advance.
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Shrine / temple
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Can you take photos at shrines and temples?
It depends on the spot. Most grounds allow photos, but inside main halls and of Buddhist statues it is often prohibited.
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Do you pray the same way at shrines and temples?
No. At shrines the basic form is two bows, two claps and one bow; at temples you put your hands together quietly without clapping.
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What do you do at a temizuya?
It is where you purify your hands and mouth before praying. Never touch the ladle with your lips; rinse your mouth with water poured into your palm.
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- Better notCan you photograph strangers?
- Good to knowDo you take your shoes off in Japanese homes?
- It dependsIs "two bows, two claps, one bow" the same everywhere?
- It dependsIs the incense offering done the same way by everyone?
- Good to knowWhat do people do when passing through a torii?
- Good to knowIs there a set amount for a shrine offering?
- Good to knowWhat do people wear to funerals in Japan?
- Good to knowHow do you visit a shrine for New Year (hatsumode)?
- It dependsCan you take photos at festivals?
- Good to knowWhat should you watch out for in festival crowds?
- Good to knowWhat are the customs of Obon?
Hotel
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Can you wear slippers on tatami?
Take off your slippers before entering a tatami room. Walk on tatami in socks or bare feet.
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Can you keep wearing the toilet slippers?
Toilet slippers are only for inside the toilet. Take them off when you leave and switch back to your own slippers.
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Do you wear a swimsuit in an onsen?
At typical onsen and public baths you bathe naked, without a swimsuit. Some facilities, however, require a swimsuit or a special bathing garment.
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- Better notCan your towel go in the onsen water?
- Better notCan you take photos in changing rooms and baths?
- It dependsCan you enter an onsen with tattoos?
- It dependsWhat are the rules for smoking in town?
- Good to knowDo you wash before getting into an onsen?
- Good to knowDo you take your shoes off in Japanese homes?
- Good to knowDo people bow in Japan?
- Good to knowDo you tip in Japan?
- Good to knowWhat is the etiquette for exchanging business cards?
- Good to knowWhat about noise and shared spaces in hotels?
- Good to knowWhat do you wear to a Japanese wedding?
- Good to knowHow do you give gift money at celebrations?
- It dependsDo people hug or shake hands when they first meet?
- Good to knowWhat should you watch out for with hair and behaviour in the bath?
- Good to knowWhen is keigo (polite Japanese) used?
- Good to knowWhy do people add "-san" to names?
- Good to knowHow do you cancel a restaurant reservation?
- Good to knowWhat do people wear to funerals in Japan?
Shop
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Do people bow in Japan?
Yes, when greeting or thanking someone. For visitors, a light nod or slight bow (eshaku) is almost always enough.
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Is "sumimasen" only for apologising?
No. "Sumimasen" is also used to get someone’s attention, to ask people to let you pass and to say thank you.
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Do you tip in Japan?
Tipping is generally not customary in Japan at restaurants, in taxis, at hotels and so on. A word of thanks is enough.
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- It dependsAre there rules for celebration gifts?
- Good to knowWhen is keigo (polite Japanese) used?
- Good to knowHow do you queue in shops?
- Good to knowWhat is the etiquette for fitting rooms?
- Good to knowDo you have to use the cash tray?
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In town
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Can you photograph strangers?
Ask first before taking a clear photo of someone you do not know. In particular, avoid following children or people in kimono to photograph them.
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What are the rules for smoking in town?
Indoor places used by many people are generally non-smoking by law. Outdoors, local ordinances ban street smoking in many areas, sometimes with fines. Use designated smoking areas.
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Is it OK to eat while walking?
It is not banned nationwide by law, but in crowded places people are expected to stop and eat, out of consideration for others. Some tourist areas ask visitors to refrain.
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- Good to knowWhat do you do when there are few trash bins?
- Good to knowWhere do you put large luggage on trains?
- Good to knowDo people bow in Japan?
- Good to knowIs "sumimasen" only for apologising?
- It dependsDo people hug or shake hands when they first meet?
- It dependsWhat should you keep in mind at museums and galleries?
- It dependsCan you take photos at festivals?
- It dependsCan you save any spot you like for fireworks?
- Good to knowWhy do people add "-san" to names?
- Good to knowHow do people queue in Japan?
- Good to knowWhat are the manners for cherry blossom viewing?
- Good to knowWhat should you watch out for in festival crowds?
- Good to knowWhat are the customs of Obon?
- Good to knowWhat is the etiquette for exchanging business cards?