What do people wear to funerals in Japan?
In short
Good to knowBlack or other subdued colours are usual. Avoid shiny decorations, flashy accessories, fur and animal prints.
When does this apply?
Family and close friends often wear black mourning clothes (mofuku), and other attendees choose a black suit or plain, dark clothing. Men usually wear a white shirt with a black tie, and plain black shoes and bags.
Why?
A funeral is a time to mourn the deceased and support the grieving family, so quiet, understated clothing expresses your feelings.
What to do
- Choose black or dark navy, subdued clothing
- Men: pair a white shirt with a black tie
- Keep accessories minimal
Better to avoid
- Wear bright colours or bold patterns
- Wear fur or animal-print items
Exceptions and differences
When rushing to a wake (tsuya), plain dark everyday clothes are sometimes considered fine. Religion, region or the family’s wishes may set a dress code, so follow any guidance given.
Manners can differ by region, facility and generation. Local signs and staff instructions come first.
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