What do you wear to a Japanese wedding?
In short
Good to knowGuests usually dress formally. Women avoid white, the bride’s colour, and men often wear a dark suit with a white or light-coloured tie.
When does this apply?
Even if the invitation says "casual attire" (heifuku), people usually choose something somewhat formal rather than everyday clothes. Avoid outfits or accessories that outshine the couple.
Why?
A wedding celebrates the couple. White is considered the bride’s colour, and all-black ties or dresses recall funerals, so many people avoid them.
What to do
- Choose a dark suit or an elegant dress
- Men: wear a white or light-coloured tie
- If unsure, ask other guests or the hosts
Better to avoid
- Women wearing a white dress
- Wearing a black tie, jeans or animal prints
Exceptions and differences
Dress expectations change for casual party-style weddings and with regional or family views. If a guest from abroad would like to wear national dress, it is reassuring to check with the hosts first.
Manners can differ by region, facility and generation. Local signs and staff instructions come first.
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