What do you say when visiting a Japanese home?
In short
Good to knowWhen stepping inside, people usually say "ojamashimasu", and when leaving, "ojamashimashita".
When does this apply?
When your host greets you at the entrance, bow lightly and say "ojamashimasu" (literally "I will intrude"), then take off your shoes and step up. When leaving, say "ojamashimashita" and "arigato gozaimashita".
Why?
"Ojamashimasu" politely acknowledges that you are entering someone else’s home and taking their time.
What to do
- Say "ojamashimasu" with a bow at the entrance
- Put on the slippers if they are offered
- Say "ojamashimashita" and "arigato gozaimashita" when leaving
Better to avoid
- Walk straight into the house without any greeting
Exceptions and differences
Close friends may use more casual greetings. If Japanese is difficult, a smile, a light bow and "thank you" in English also convey your feelings.
Manners can differ by region, facility and generation. Local signs and staff instructions come first.
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Sources
- Japanese Manners Do's and Don'ts(opens in a new tab)
- The "Genkan": Japan's Traditional Entryway and Footwear Etiquette(opens in a new tab)
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